Writing a tribute can be a very personal and moving experience. It can be healing for a grieving person to write or to listen to. It is not difficult to do, and your efforts will be appreciated by many.

This is a great way to express your gratitude and appreciation of someone dear to you. Keep it real, speak from your heart. There is no need to make it sound fancy or formal.

Take your time to think about what you most love about the person. Have you seen a side of him that others have not? Maybe you can share a special memory you have of him.

Paint a picture of the person with words. Describe physical characteristics - a twinkle in the eye, a friendly smile, a sweet expression. When you add details, it helps others recall the same picture.

Six Questions to Help You Make It Perfect

1. When and where did you and the deceased first meet?
2. Is there a funny story that represents the essence of him?
3. What did you admire about the deceased?
4. What we she known for?
5. Did he have a favorite saying or motto to live by?
6. What will you miss most about him?

The Most Important Part

By far, the best part of your speech will be a simple and moving story. If you can think of one, share an anecdote or short story about the person, that illustrates their personality and character. It can be a retelling of a serious or humorous event.

If you cannot recall a specific incident, you can describe something that the person was known for. Such as welcoming people into her home, or the way she played with her children. Focus on the good things he or she has done and the ways they have impacted the lives around them.

Ideas for Presenting Your Tribute

You can present what you have written as a gift, by sending it in a card. You could also gather friends and family together and read it out loud. This is a great way to initiate a special time of sharing stories and favorite memories. If you do not want to share publicly, you can include it in a sympathy card or letter. If you will be presenting this as a gift, you may want to include a photograph or a photo collage.

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