If you need to write a sympathy letter to grieving parents, you need to see this sample letter of sympathy. It shows you how basic your letter should be. A sympathy letter shouldn't be too long and it isn't appropriate to catch up on what's new in your life.

Sometimes in tragic situations the bereaved are basically ignored by friends and family who do not know what to do or say. It certainly can be overwhelming to find words of condolence for such a tragedy, but even a brief letter can demonstrate your support and concern. I think that so many people become overwhelmed in a situation like this because they want to write something amazing. It is best to keep your letter simple. It's purpose is to show your support and honor the life of a child gone to soon.

For help in knowing what to say to bereaved parents, go to Words of Sympathy for the Loss of a Child.

Dear Sam and Carol, I am deeply grieved to hear the news of Katie's death. I cannot imagine the pain you feel right now. Katie has been the light of your lives. Her passing will leave a great void in the hearts of all that have been forunate enough to have know her. I will miss her sweet laughter and beautiful smile. What loving parents you are, words cannot express how deeply sorry I am that you have to endure this loss. May your friends and family bring you strength and comfort during this difficult time. I have included some of my favorite pictures of Katie, I hope these precious memories can bring you some comfort. With much love, Rhonda

A Sample Letter of Sympathy for Loss of Baby

An encouraging part of a sympathy letter can be a fond memory or story to share. In the case of a baby you may not have as much to share, but you can still comfort bereaved parents by mentioning something you've observed about their special relationship to their baby or their anticipation of their baby. It may also be helpful to look at a sample letter of sympathy broken down into each of the seven components and with examples for each section.

Dear Trent and Rebecca, I was heartbroken to hear the news about the death of your precious baby, Samantha. I remember how radient you were when you first found out you were having a girl. I know as parents you had so many hopes and dreams for your beautiful baby girl. I wish I could find words to ease your pain. I know that your family will help you through this most difficult of life challenges. If it would be helpful, I would love to babysit Abbey and Jordan for you. You know you are always welcome at our house and we are just a phone call away. Please call if you need anything. Our thoughts are with you, Love, Cindy

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