Perhaps the most helpful gesture you can make is to give grieving parents a way to honor and commemorate their precious baby. Miscarriage tends to not be acknowledged as much as other losses, yet this profound loss can cause deep grief that is difficult to reconcile without some kind of tangible way of finding closure. Acknowledging infant loss by sending flowers, a card or a memorial gift can really mean a lot.
Miscarriage jewelry makes a beautiful sympathy gift that gives a grieving woman a token of remembrance.
La Bella Dame is a wonderful source for Miscarriage, Stillbirth and Infant Loss Jewelry -Customised jewelry to celebrate the life of a child lost in miscarriage, stillbirth and infant loss. Each piece is created using carefully selected symbols to help support the grieving parent after the loss of a baby.
Another great source for remembrance jewelry and memorial keepsakes is My Forever Child
I found the My Forever Child website after a good friend of mine had suffered a miscarriage. I am so thankful that this website exists and I know that it has been a tremendous blessing to countless parents.
Another resource that has helped many parents cope with their loss is a wonderful nonprofit organization called, Now I Lay Me Down To Sleep. They have provided a special way for giving hope to grieving moms and dads as they cope with infant loss. If this is a loss close to your heart, you may want to consider donating to this organization. They provide beautiful professional portraits to bereaved parents at no cost.
Offer to help with practical needs and household chores. It might only by something little that you are able to do, bringing over a meal or sending a carepackage, but it's the fact that you are doing something that speaks volumes. Many times people are overwhelmed with the sadness of their loss and because they feel so hopeless they do nothing.
Please do not avoid grieving parents. Make a simple gesture, even just sending a card to acknowledge their loss. Let them know that you are sad for them.
Here are some phrases to avoid saying:
This list compiled by Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep parents is a very good resource to help us understand what bereaved parents are going through and how we can help.
Sample Miscarriage Sympathy Card Messages, if you need to send a card here are some ideas to help you along the way.