It's strange to think that a letter acknowledging a friend's loss can bring comfort to them. Here's a trick to make your letter hope inspiring: Share a fond memory or story that captures the personality of the departed loved one.

If you can do this just right you will have a condolence letter that demonstrates how much a departed loved one was valued by others.

Dear Amanda, My heart is filled with sadness at your loss. I cannot imagine the pain you feel right now. We will miss Roger so much. He was a wonderful father, husband and friend. For many years I have valued the friendship, kindness and thoughtfulness I have shared with the two of you. You both have been like sunshine to me during my dark times. I'll never forget how Roger could cheer me up with his ridiculous impersonations. Friends like Roger are few in life. With a heavy heart I grieve your loss. It goes without saying that I would drop anything to help you right now during this difficult time. You've got my number. Call me when you are ready. I could keep you company any day next week and help with any housework you need done. Love and prayers, Anita

A Condolence Letter for a Neighbor

Dear Amanda, I am sorry to hear of your great loss. Roger was such a wonderful neighbor and friend. You and your family have been a source of joy for us as we've watched your children growing up. You are a beautiful family and now to hear of Roger's death, it just makes me so sad. Please know that you and the children are in our thoughts and prayers. We'd like to help you in your time of need by taking out your garbage on Thursdays. If there is anything else we could do for you please don't hesitate. Our deepest condolences, The Stanton Family

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